People who are using the co-parenting model for raising their children need to have suitable communication. They need to be able to discuss things related to the kids and compromise on matters when necessary.
One of the most important things that co-parents can do is to ensure they have solid guidelines for communication. The goal of this is to keep those conversations on track so they can make informed decisions about the children. By communicating respectfully and effectively, the co-parents are modeling responsible adult behavior for the children.
Choose an appropriate time
All discussions between co-parents should occur at an appropriate time. It’s best to have these conversations when the co-parents aren’t around the children. This means they should be avoided on transition days. Some discussions should occur only when there’s ample time to thoroughly talk about the matter.
Know when to take a step back
There are times when co-parents may have disagreements. Knowing when to take a step back to calm down and consider the options available can be beneficial so both co-parents can make logical decisions. Setting a time to address the issue again ensures the matter won’t fall by the wayside just because the discussion got too heated.
The parenting plan should have clear terms for what should happen in the co-parenting relationship. Working with someone familiar with these matters and the circumstances of the case may help co-parents set everything up in a way that reflects the best interests of the children.